Are you aligned with: separation, union or sitting on a fence?

“Honouring the needs of your soul is an unfolding that requires great levels of trust, openness and vulnerability. ​
The journey is an epic one with unimaginable expansions that take place within you and around you.
Where are you being called to step in and receive?” Destini

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Unavailable Men – What Keeps You From Unity – Are You Aligned?

With all the bumps and bruises of his life
HE had developed a protective shell
Cautious as a turtle
Sometimes allowing his head
To emerge and swell
But HE had a condition of inhibited release
So HE couldn’t let go
It was his way to being in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
HE was sitting on the fence holding back
Afraid of jumping into the action
Fearful HE might be hurt
Perhaps a contract should be signed
To guarantee his safety
It was his way of being in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
Striking a fast ball
His running speed gave him a home run
But HE was out of there fast
With a condition of premature ejaculation
It was his way of being in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
HE would eat his appetizers
But never commit to a full meal
For he was a man about town
A woman’s man
It was his way of being in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
HE was a workaholic
With no time to devote or get serious
It was his way of staying in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
HE no longer could start his car
Let alone drive it…
A condition of impotence
HE had forgotten or never knew
About the care and attention a car needs
In order to work properly over the years
It was his way of being in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
As HE quickly escaped
Into his pungent mind-altering marijuana cloud
A sign on the door of his mind read
Private, do not disturb
Tripping through mental states
It was his way of being in separation
Instead of unity

All the bumps and bruises of his life
Had developed a protective shell
HE was off floating about
In a sexual faraway fantasy land
Unable to be fully present
HE held his fantasy doll tight
It was his way to get a charge
While being in separation
Instead of unity

Why not align into me HE said
Fall in step
Like 2 peas in a pod
Walk my walk and talk my talk
Take the courses I take
Follow my thinking, beliefs, philosophies as your own
Be my Bobbsey Twin, or else
Add me to your list of unavailable men
Was this his way of being in separation
Instead of unity?

FdF

“We are all equal in the fact that we are all different. We are all the same in the fact that we will never be the same. We are united by the reality that all colours and all cultures are distinct & individual. We are harmonious in the reality that we are all held to this earth by the same gravity. We don’t share blood, but we share the air that keeps us alive. I will not blind myself and say that my black brother is not different from me. I will not blind myself and say that my brown sister is not different from me. But my black brother is he as much as I am me. But my brown sister is she as much as I am me.”
― C. JoyBell C.


The Voice of Wisdom

The HE with inhibited release began to develop hip problems as did the HE sitting on the fence. Thought forms or patterns of consciousness can precipitate possible disorders in the body. If something is awry with the thinking, the body is the place it plays out. “Messages From The Body” by Michael J. Lincoln describes the psychological meanings of many illnesses, ailments, disorders that can occur in the body and which represent a warning system that can be understood, modified and even mended. Hip issues in general represent a real fear of moving forward.

Write up your story – it helps to see your stories and beliefs that keep you mis-aligned or aligned in separation. Lift the veil for clarity so you can begin to fully experience your life and love more fully. Transform the issues that keep you from being fully in intimacy. Develop trust as you allow your heart to open and as you release old toxic coping mechanisms of armoring and protection. All patterns, habits, beliefs that have compromised your life can now brought forward to review and disassemble, so that you no longer have to remain in a state of separation and conflict.

If you were an athlete, wouldn’t you want to give 100% effort to the game. Why hold back? Even if there are a few bumps along the way you will learn from it and it makes you an even better athlete. Whether you sit on the side lines, hide in the closet, jump in and out like a helter-skelter rabbit or get distracted with other things, life is passing you by. Enter the beautiful, unified field of deep love, freedom, joy and ecstasy. Our relationships are a spring board for interacting with our wider world.

“True freedom is where an individual’s thoughts and actions are in alignment with that which is true, correct, and of honor – no matter the personal price.” Bryant H. McGill

Blue Balls

“Thrift is poetic because it is creative; waste is unpoetic because it is waste.”
― G.K. Chesterton, What’s Wrong with the World

The Perfect Lovers - Blue Balls

As a youngster HE used to play with himself
Stroking his penis between his legs
It felt so good
As the tension built

When HE turned 18
His mother came into his room
To demonstrate on him
The ejaculation process

But to this day
HE prefers the childhood way
Of stroking and building
Without release

The Voice of Wisdom

HE never experienced any pain with the build up of pressure and tension. Nor did HE feel a painful, dull aching sensation in the testicular region following his sexual arousal without climax, but HE did experience enlarged balls.

“Blue balls is a slang term for the condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. The term is thought to have originated in the United States, first appearing in 1916. Some urologists call the condition “epididymal hypertension”. The condition is not experienced by all males.” Wikipedia

The Taoists describe the importance of not ejaculating in the Discourse on the Highest Tao Under Heaven:
“If a man has intercourse without spilling his seed, his vital essence is strengthened. If he does this twice, his hearing and vision are made clear. If three times, all his physical illness will disappear. The fourth time he will begin to feel inner peace. The fifth time his blood will circulate powerfully.The sixth time his genitals will gain new prowess. By the seventh his thighs and buttocks will become firm. The eighth time his body will radiate good health. The ninth time his life span will be increased.”

Roosh V

‘rape should be legalized on private property’
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Photo: Daryush Valizadeh

In the NEWS – International group pushing to legalize rape may meet in Singapore – See more at: http://news.asiaone.com/news/singapore/international-group-pushing-legalize-rape-may-meet-singapore#sthash.I68LkpDv.dpuf. ‘Legal rape’ blogger organizes covert meetings for men across U.S.http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2016/feb/2/roosh-v-pro-rape-activist-organizes-covert-meeting/

Daryush Valizadeh born June 14, 1979 is a writer and pickup artist known for his writings on seduction and antifeminism. In February 2015, Roosh was criticized for a blog post that he wrote titled “How to Stop Rape” in which he proposed legalizing rape. In the post, he said “If rape becomes legal under my proposal, a girl will protect her body in the same manner that she protects her purse and smartphone. If rape becomes legal, a girl will not enter an impaired state of mind where she can’t resist being dragged off to a bedroom with a man who she is unsure of—she’ll scream, yell, or kick at his attempt while bystanders are still around. If rape becomes legal, she will never be unchaperoned with a man she doesn’t want to sleep with. After several months of advertising this law throughout the land, rape would be virtually eliminated on the first day it is applied.”From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

When Daryush operates from his shadow nature he will no doubt create conflict as shown in his Gene Key of (6) where there is problems with boundaries and borders between men and women and with many countries who are questioning even his presence. This shadow has the potential within for war and in this case, war between the sexes. If he would adjust his behaviour to create harmonious exchanges with others he would find himself with a gift of delivering harmony and peace. But…let me introduce yet another Gene Key shadow that enters his picture and that is his (36) manifesting as the emotional turbulence of uncertainty created with the storyline of his life. This shadow at the lowest level can show up with the challenge of sexuality and with sexual lust as a turbulence in the body. In some it might show up as nervousness, others have their lives become a crisis prone soap opera. Yet as always there is a gift within this shadow which is to open the heart and respect others with compassion. Another shadow to address is that of pride (26) where one wields their will with a boastful nature. This shadow can become a gift of marketing which Daryush does very well. This heavy duty shadow of dominance is showing up in this chart in a very important location representing his life’s work. His life’s work is to wrestle with this shadow and transform it. It is the shadow of (45) giving the feeling that one has to push another down in order that they may rise, therefore there is an oppression and dishonouring of another human being. Will he eventually be able to raise this shadow into a gift of synergy and work together in communion rather than in competition.
Lastly, when one feels cut off from their Divine Source the shadow of arrogance may occur which can be easily shifted into the highest level of humility. I wonder if Daryush will offer us his gifts instead of his shadows.

Are you interested in exploring your own shadows and gifts? check out the http://www.genekeys.com
As a Gene Keys Counselor I am deeply inspired by the work of Richard Rudd…

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Cry of Longing

Feeding your sexual hunger is about finding nourishing and fulfilling ways to satisfy your appetite so that you are not reliant on the women you meet for sexual fulfillment. Sex is imperative to our well being and has remarkable similarities to food. If you go without it for long periods of time, you starve.
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