The Perfect Lover

For men sex is intimately connected with their sense of masculinity, self-image, and self-worth.
Their sexual performance for/with their partner is personal for the man, in regards to stroking his ego, his abilities, his confidence, making him feel appreciated, loved and valued.

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Character Study “The Thinker” (Category – Love in the Community)


“The Thinker”
Wanting to contribute to the benefit of humanity

This person has just died. I used Astrology based on transits and his least apected planets to understand and write this character study for the family.

Even though you are gone…..
You are now entering a time of exuberant optimism
A twelve-year cycle of personal growth
With broader perspectives of higher wisdom
Opening new activities, to nourish & clothe

A thinker, with deep centers of gravity
Lying within his intellectual mind
Escaping the confines, of circumstance with glee
For freedom, travel, expansion & new world views, to find

Most happy and at ease, when moving about
Discussing multitudes, of intellectual matters
With friends whose ideas were similar throughout
High ideals…. might have sometimes, been shattered

Seen as humane and broadminded
With nothing done, that could be called halfway
Every experience so intense, amid
A strong will to lead others, and to obey

Ambitious projects would test abilities, to procure
The best in people, with a vision to advise
Ceaseless perceptions of human nature
Where it needed to be “fixed”, or made more civilized

A contributor to bigger efforts,
Yet a personality in your own right
With the understanding of trends, you did assert
Contributions to humanity, to lift our plight

The empathy and interest in fellow humans
Along with a gift of, insightful giving
Inspirational roots, mixed with logic and mental acumen
Your research contributed, to improvements in living

You were a cornerstone, for a family or organization
Always needing to know
That you were doing something for others,
As well as yourself, to bestow

Fantasia de Fleurs

Milky Breasts

And then he told me he was starved and dying at his mother’s breasts, for there was no nutrition within….



Reckless Like a Fool

“Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with those who are reckless with yours” Mary Schmich
23. Reckless

Holding Unto Guilt

To love with an open heart is to risk getting hurt. Therefore, in conscious living and conscious loving, forgiveness will always play a key role.
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Falling in Love

The Chemistry of Love



AUDIO: Lasting Longer Voice Over by Fantasia de Fleurs, Music Kevin MacLeod, Recording Ritmone

Last Longer (Sexual Techniques) – (Part 1. Movement)

Do you use mostly the Right or Left side of the Brain in Regards to Movement?

Usually whoever you are in the outside world, is who you are in the bedroom

– When you go into a shopping center, do you head right in and get what you want and out again? (Left Brain, goal oriented)
Or do you like to wander, and take your time, with the journey being more important than the goal? (Right Brain)

– Do you like fast food, quick, easy and straight down the hatch?
Or are you more into gourmet with a slow leisurely approach?

– Do you speak direct and to the point, often noding your head up and down, perhaps even looking at your watch?
Do you have a tendency to ramble with a lot of words?

Great sex occurs more on the right side of the brain
If you are too fast (premature ejaculation), you are moving in a left brain manner.

Great sex is all about the journey, not the goal of orgasm.
Great sex is like becoming a sponge and filling up slowly with all kinds of sensations

Fantasia de Fleurs

Tea with Turkish Cookies – Character Study (Love Shown in The Community)

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Exotic Tales…
Tea with Turkish Cookies

Tea time with the Aunt
Who sprouts spiritual visions
To help lift people’s burdens, and magically enchant
New destinies from old possibilities, that were quite scant

Under ordinary circumstance, she injects
Auras of meaning, to fill potential
You’d be lucky to hear, the stories she collects
For her life is certainly, not inconsequential

In the company of others,
A vitality of personality
Holds close like a mother
Yet embraces the world as family

We drink tea from bone china, up to the brim
While clutching cookies from Turkey, in her lap
Exquisitely boxed with turquoise and gold trim
She offers this gift, as it’s unwrapped

Tales emerge, from far-away lands
A spinning of words about people in need
She conjures up some grand plan
With a purpose and worth guaranteed

Visionary ideals that are fueled in belief
Make a character with powerful zeal
Empathic compassion as commander in chief
She becomes a revolutionary of strong impulse, to reform and reveal

Her unique power of imagination
Backed by compassion
Along with the words to grace…
Make our fragile world, into a much better place

Fantasia de Fleurs


How To Make A Difference To The World

By Mark Foo

Many people believe that they don’t have what it takes to make a difference to the world. They believe only people like Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Theresa, Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Bill Gates, and the likes, are capable of making a difference.
The truth is, every one of us is put in this world to contribute and make a difference to the world in our own unique way. It need not be anything out of the world. It just needs to be something you do with the intention of ‘doing good’.

The following is a guide as to how small people like us can make a difference to the world.
How To Make a Difference

1. It Need Not Be an Enormous Task
“If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one.” – Mother Teresa
You already have what it takes to make the world a better place. Making a difference to the world may seem like an enormous task, but it is in fact the collective effort of everyone to make small contributions with a lot of heart.
The size of the contribution is not what matters most. The key here is to have the heart to do it.

2. Start Now
“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” – Anne Frank
There is no one best time to start to make a difference to the world. You don’t need to wait till you have the time to share some love; you don’t have to wait till you make more money to share a slice of bread. Little efforts count, and you can start making small contributions today.

3. Your Contribution is Never Too Small
“Nobody can do everything, but everyone can do something.” – Author Unknown
If you think that everything has been taken care of by somebody and your contribution is not going to make much of a difference, then you’re wrong. Can you imagine if everyone else starts to think the same way?
In fact, it is our responsibility to seek ways to contribute, large and small. You don’t have to be concerned you’re only capable of making small contributions. What counts is the effort.

4. The Greatest Gifts of All
“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” – Buddha
Happiness and love are the two greatest gifts you can give to the world. Too often, we’re too indulged in our own gratifications that we forget there are people in this world whom we can make a little happier and feel more loved.
As the saying goes, “To receive, you must first give.” The more you give, the more you’ll receive. Let us remind ourselves that in order to receive more happiness and love, let’s spread more of them first.

5. Empower Other People
“Abilities wither under criticism; they blossom under encouragement.” – Dale Carnegie
You can change the world by helping one person at a time. One of the ways to help someone is to empower the person. But how do you empower a person? Well, one of the ways is to be generous in giving praise and encouragement instead of criticism.
By praising and encouraging the person, you’d have helped him/her to accomplish what he/she is meant to be, and that would lead to more value being added to the world.

6. Seek to Make a Long-Lasting Effect
“The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own.” – Benjamin Disraeli
This is Mr Disraeli’s version of ‘give a man a fish; you feed him for a day. Teach him how to fish, you feed him for a lifetime.’
The good that we seek to do will make more of a difference when there’s a long-lasting effect rather than a temporary effect. For example, if we make contributions to build a school, it will benefit many people for years to come.
And when more people receive education, they will in turn provide more value to the world.

7. Stop Whining and Do Something
“If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.” – Anthony J. D’Angelo
All the whining and complaining in the world is not going to make a difference to the world. It will only drain you of your precious energy from doing things that do make a difference.
Instead of whining and complaining, seek to use the time more productively by engaging in activities that matter. When it comes to making a difference, nothing matters more than taking actions.

8. Lead the Way
“A good example has twice the value of good advice.” – Author Unknown
Other than doing things to make a difference, we should also seek to influence others to start doing things that make a difference. And the best way to convince other people is to lead by example.
Start doing whatever is within your ability today. Start showing more concern and love to the people around you. Start to make monthly donations to your favourite charity. Start putting more effort in your work to increase the value output.

Every effort counts, no matter how small and insignificant it may seem. Just do something, and do something good.

Words Can Create Emotional Connections

Voice Over Words_create_emotional_connections


What really determines what kind of sex you are going to have isn’t the novel positions you find in the sex manual or the new tips in the latest magazine. It’s how safely attached you are to your partner. Emotional presence and trust are the biggest aphrodisiacs of all.

Strawberry Fields

The lengths lovers go through to feel liberation.

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