If a lifetime is for learning, then spend it learning to love, for this is the reason for life, and the ability to love makes the journey worthwhile


A beacon of light for self-reflection and improvement
Transforming hidden secrets to kindle a light in the darkness
Shifting old ways and patterns that hinder intimacy, love and wholeness

The alchemical power of passion as a therapeutic call of awakening

All things relating to the topic of love and intimacy in our private lives and society. From the synthesis of balancing the right/ left side of the brain, archetypes, shadows, transcendence sex to awakening the light and fire within.

Shadows can be elusive, unconscious, tricky blind spots that interfere with intimacy. These shadows can be transformed once you are aware of them. Your own shadows can be uncovered through writing any uncomfortable emotions that might come up in intimacy. Journal with or about your lover as it will help to contemplate and process your feelings and assist you with reflection, tracking progress and healing wounds in order to face and overcome challenges in life and intimacy.

We all have our own psychological lens by which we see ourselves and the world. Our lover provides a mirror for this lens, to help us to polish and improve our perspective. This is the challenge that love offers, this depth of seeing, this reflection through intimacy. When we journal and contemplate our shadows, we may shift them into a higher vision of ourselves which can create a great liberation. The type of writing that pours thoughts and emotions onto the paper provides a window for viewing and processing beliefs long held in the subconscious part of our minds.

This work builds on what has been done by others before including Carl Gustav Jung (1875-1961) who changed the way we think about the human psyche, personality types, dream interpretation, archetypes and shadow work. The Gene Keys by Richard Rudd originated from the Human Design System of Ra Uru Hu and will help ignite the spark of your own highest potential. It will give you a framework of self-understanding from your own personal Gene Keys. links are provided below.

Inner Work … uncovering your personal shadows and gifts – to improve intimacy and relationships.

Outer Work … “Your Outer World Reflects Your Inner World” and visa versa. The books of the Perfect Lovers show how your inner world is reflected by and in the outer world. You will be left enriched with valuable insight into how you might help improve your spirituality, relationships and our world through love.


The Perfect Lovers – might change your perspectives, challenge your stereotypes and illuminate some private issues. It is designed to break blocks and barriers through the example of the archetype of the HE and SHE within and can possibly awaken some dark (psychological) shadows and turn them to gold.

A woman has a dream. This book is her diary as she attempts to chart the living out of her dream. The quest at the heart of the dream is about greater intimacy, incredible sex and the ability to overcome gravity to travel and levitate to higher dimensions by transcending the undertow of duality to attain the ultimate union of “Singularity”, the state where we become One. Our body holds a certain energy and through maturity, wisdom and right timing, this energy (kundalini) will come to fruition and blossom. In the meantime there is much preparatory work to be done.

Through the experience she comes to understand the journey of the dream as a dialogue between two archetypal characters, ADAM and EVE or SHE and HE as they represent two force fields meeting in the soul drama that falling in love entails. The Lovers become the perfect embodiment of the Masculine and the Feminine, the God and the Goddess, who must undergo an initiation that strips away their defences in the face of deepening love and intimacy. Inner conflicts arise as they engage in the Shadow work we all must explore in order to come to Union.

The layout of the book is framed with call and response pages facing each other. The call page on the left is that of the Lovers and the response page on the right is the Voice of Wisdom, a commentary to anchor the experience of the Lovers. This wisdom voice carries humour, observation and insight into an eternal experience that the reader may enter as if it is their own.

A beautifully pictured little red book acts as a magnifying glass to open into the sacredness of our bodies, our sexuality and relationships. For when the world is absorbed in violence, disruption and abuse, if we can reflect and improve upon our own private love life, perhaps we can positively influence the world at large.

Begin by:Downloading your FREE Hologentic Gene Key Profile. Click on the breakthrough banner on the page “Find Your Story”